[ladyfighter]

I'd have to somewhat agree with Militis, however, there are those who are not looking for potential family mates, rather one night mates

I do believe that you have to have some type of attraction to a person to be able to create/sustain a relationship... I mean, gee you can't get to the first kiss, if you're not atleast alittle attracted But the more you get to know someone and the more in love you fall, their outward looks become increasingly more attracted to you!! (That must be why I think Souldrum71 is the MOST Goodlooking Man I have ever laid eyes on )