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Weird question, but I was just thinking cuz so many people at school are all like dang she fine and that is reason enough for them to date. I haven't ever had a girlfriend partly because I am very picky and also just cuz I don't think at this age their is any point in that kind of relationship.
There are people that I have been attracted to though, and while they were still very attractive, it was more about who they were that I was attracted to. This type of attraction seems to be a minority because everyone else is all about looks and whether or not the person is "connected".
What are your thoughts? I think it is ridiculous for a girl to have been through 5 boyfriends in a matter of months.
What are your guy's thoughts on todays matters of love?
Weird question, but I was just thinking cuz so many people at school are all like dang she fine and that is reason enough for them to date. I haven't ever had a girlfriend partly because I am very picky and also just cuz I don't think at this age their is any point in that kind of relationship.
There are people that I have been attracted to though, and while they were still very attractive, it was more about who they were that I was attracted to. This type of attraction seems to be a minority because everyone else is all about looks and whether or not the person is "connected".
What are your thoughts? I think it is ridiculous for a girl to have been through 5 boyfriends in a matter of months.
What are your guy's thoughts on todays matters of love?
Think about it, would you want to marry someone who looks stunning, but is an a-hole? Or would you marry someone smart and easy to be with, but average looks?
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Well, I am not talking about people marrying hot a-holes, I am talking about them dating them and everything that comes with that. I wouldn't date unless it was someone that I was completely in love with, and love seems to be a word that is just tossed around. What I am getting at is that people at school (who are never going to marry) just find a "hot boyfriend/girlfriend" and that is all a lot of people care about. At least that is how a lot of guys are.
Avg works for me. Although I've found that men can always date/marry a younger woman. You should see some of the ladies that I work with, and then see their husbands. You would be scratching your head for years trying to figure out how they hooked up.
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Even the best of men are capable of the most disgusting evil. Just as the most evil man is capable of showing kindness.
Do not be fooled into thinking your enemy's sin is worse than yours, or that your's is better than his.
While he is not my most favorite comedian, Id have to agree with Ron White...
If your eye sight goes, they can fix that
If your hearing goes, they can fix that
If you start to get fat, they can fix that
If you need any other sort of cosmetic surgery, they can fix that
But you can't fix stupid!
It depends, if you just want sex then its hot girls all the way, but if you want a relationship, go for personality 1st. Huy peeps by the way
Well yeah, but would anyone that has any dignity or any compassion in their heart want a sex only relationship? We all know that those relationships become the most messed up out of any relationship. If you love a girl, and I mean really love her, I don't think you are thinking about sex (at least I don't). You are thinking how could God have made someone so beautiful inside and out, and why do I find it so hard to talk to her? And yes, in real love sex or sexual behaviors will probably come into play, but it is most definitely not a priority. I think if sex is the priority in a real loving relationship that either 1) I am not really a man
or 2) You are a stupid feel-good player that doesn't care about anyone but yourself and has no passion for anything other than to make yourself feel good.
It is human nature (reguardless of religion) to find members of the opposite sex attractive, and, I believe, completely natural and acceptable to "date" , while in early adulthood, multiple partners (not nessesarily at the same time). Its a way to find out what aspects of personality and physicality you prefeer.
These relationships are not meaningless even if they don't net a perfect union with a true love. Experience(not nessesarily sexually) is very important for true maturity.
"Hot" girls can be smart/ good natured too.
Personality does count for a lot, but, I believe, nature imbued in all of us a set of standards by which we judge potential mates for the purpose of creating and sustaining a healthy family.
I don't mean to slander or sleight religious perspective with my statements that seem weighted towards science.
In the end, you really are only sapposed to do what feels/ is right for you.
Date the 'hot', cheerleading, drama student who loves to hike and watch cheesy sci-fi movies I say.
I'd have to somewhat agree with Militis, however, there are those who are not looking for potential family mates, rather one night mates
I do believe that you have to have some type of attraction to a person to be able to create/sustain a relationship... I mean, gee you can't get to the first kiss, if you're not atleast alittle attracted But the more you get to know someone and the more in love you fall, their outward looks become increasingly more attracted to you!! (That must be why I think Souldrum71 is the MOST Goodlooking Man I have ever laid eyes on )
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Funny you should say that, almost all of the beautiful girls at my school were the intelligent ones, the ugliest girls weren't usually that smart. The smart ones were very nice people as well, although they were very cliquey.
As for me, I'm a big soppy romantic. I believe that two people are just drawn together by fate/luck and if they are right for each other they will stay with each other for ever.
Not very logical, but neither is love.
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Ah, Steven Seagull, I bet nobody's thought of that before.
What are you most attracted to?
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But the more you get to know someone and the more in love you fall, their outward looks become increasingly more attracted to you!! (That must be why I think Souldrum71 is the MOST Goodlooking Man I have ever laid eyes on 
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